We had no idea where we would spend the night while in Phoenix. Howard was thinking we might stay at a Walmart, so we found one in the suburbs and stopped to talk it over. This really wasn't going to work, because we would have to unhook the trailer and drive away to spend the evening at cousin Jean's house. That meant leaving the trailer in an unfamiliar place, relying on whatever security the store had in the parking lot. So we went inside to borrow a yellow pages, looking for an RV park. We found one nearby, just on the edge of Sun City West, called to check on the price, and headed down the road to park the trailer.
Leon's RV Park is a small private park, with big spaces and a pool and community center. There were several RVs there that looked like snow birds, folks from the north who spent the winter in the warmer area in Arizona. They were obviously set up for a long stay, with outdoor furniture and plants outside their rig. We only had time to park and plug in before we left for Jean's house.
Sun City and Sun City West are planned communities, made up mostly of retirees and snow birds. The houses all look alike, built from the same four or five plans, multiplied by the thousands. Most of the developments are only for folks over 55 years of age. There are churches, temples, shopping malls and golf courses, but very few schools. In fact there are so many golf courses that there is a lane on the streets for golf carts, like a bike lane. And the golf carts have the right of way on those streets! We found that out when we nearly drove over two old guys in a golf cart going through an intersection.
Jean's house is large, with a large living room, dining room, reading room, a master and guest bedroom, and family room next to the kitchen. She had invited several friends over and squeezed us onto the end of the dining table for the seder. This group socialized together often, and had supported Jean while her husband was dying. And now Jean had a boyfriend, a widower she had met while on a cruise with these friends.
There was only one other Jewish person there, a woman who had actually gone to the Yeshiva. This is unheard of for Jewish women, where the Jewish men always take precedence on all things religious. Remember "Yentl", the Barbara Streisand movie where she dressed as a man to go the religious school? Women in the orthodox wing of the Jewish faith play no part in the religious services at the temple, and must sit separate from the men if they are even allowed in at all.
The Passover reading went fairly quickly, which was kind of a disappointment to us. The story of Passover has so much meaning for Jews, it is a reminder of the great sacrifice the ancestors made in the days of the phrase of Egypt.
Dinner was wonderful, it was nice to have a home-cooked meal, including matzoh ball soup!
Jean came over the next morning to see our new home and catch us up on her life since we had last seen her. It was a wonderful visit, too short due to the 11 o'clock check out time at the RV park. We said our good byes and headed down the road for New Mexico.